Starting a new school year can be super exciting—but also a little bit nerve-wracking, especially if you don’t know many people in your class. The good news? Making new friends is easier than you might think—and it can even be fun!
Here’s a kid-friendly guide with easy tips to help you feel more confident and ready to make awesome new friends at school. 🎉
😊 1. Start with a Smile
The easiest way to show someone you’re friendly is to smile!
When you smile at someone, it shows that you’re kind and open to talking. It’s like saying “hi” without even using words!
👋 2. Say Hello First
Don’t be afraid to say “Hi!” or “What’s your name?”
Most kids feel a little shy, just like you. If you speak up first, they’ll probably be happy you did!
Try these simple starters:
- “Hi, I’m [Your Name]. Want to sit together?”
- “That book looks cool—what’s it about?”
- “Do you want to play at recess?”
🧩 3. Find Something in Common
Friends often like the same things!
Ask questions to find out what you both enjoy, like:
- Favorite games
- TV shows or cartoons
- Hobbies or sports
- Favorite snacks or colors
🎨 4. Join In!
If you see kids playing a game, drawing, or building something, ask: “Can I join you?”
Most kids will say yes! And even if they’re not ready to add someone in, that’s okay—just try again later with someone else. Keep being friendly.
🧠 5. Be a Good Friend First
Being a friend means being kind, helpful, and respectful.
- Share your crayons or toys
- Listen when others talk
- Include someone who looks left out
- Say nice things like “Good job!” or “That’s cool!”
When you’re a good friend, other kids will want to be your friend too.
😅 6. Don’t Worry if It Takes Time
Making friends doesn’t always happen in one day—and that’s totally okay!
Keep being your awesome self, and little by little, friendships will grow.
💬 7. Ask a Grown-Up for Help if You Need It
If you’re feeling super shy or unsure, talk to a teacher, counselor, or a trusted adult. They can help introduce you to other kids or come up with ideas to help you feel more comfortable.
💡 Friendly Challenge!
Try this on your first week of school:
✅ Smile at 3 new people
✅ Say “Hi” to 2 classmates
✅ Ask 1 person to play or sit with you
You never know—one of them might become your new best friend! 🌈
Remember: You’re not the only one hoping to make friends. Everyone wants to feel included. So be brave, be kind, and be YOU—because you’re someone worth knowing!
👯♂️ Who knows? Your new best friend might be just one “hello” away.
Do you have a favorite way to make new friends? Tell us in the comments below—we’d love to hear your ideas! ✨
Live.Laugh.Learn,
Jenn, Owner of Teacher Time To Go